The first room you enter from the front of our house is The Long Room. But we never use it that way.
In my grandmother’s day, the front door was never opened. You see, in 1952, ten years after she and her young family moved to Clifton on the Monocacy, with its fields stretching behind the house, down to the Monocacy River, and its tree-filled front lawn creating a foreground for its spectacular mountain view, a cement factory was built DIRECTLY across the road from her front door. Not only did this factory block her view, it blighted the bucolic landscape and belched an insidious, fine grey dust over everything.
She removed her comfortable chairs from the front porch, closed the front door, and never used it again. When I was a little girl, a chair sat in front of the door, as if it were a wall.
So The Long Room became a room at the back of the house, the last room you entered before heading upstairs. It was a hallway, but it was no longer central to the house. Thus this long room, big enough to accommodate high school dance parties hosted by my father and uncle in the 1950s, became a forgotten room.
In here, grandmother would house her favorite, delicate things: a blue velvet ‘square’ chair, her German porcelain candelabra, books, a grand piano (which neither she nor my grandfather could play). It was lovely, comfortable, as was everything my grandmother put her finger to, but it was also a room of unnecessary things.
Due to the forgotten nature of this room, when I was a little girl, we children spent a great deal of our time in here. This is where we had our Parcheesi and Hearts tournaments. (Parcheesi is a board game touted as the game of Royal India, and Hearts is our favorite card game.)
But the one activity that consistently brought the entire household into this room was when my sisters, my cousin, and I would put on our theatrics. They were always staged on the first landing of the front stairs, a perfectly sized stage for four young thespians.
These were sophisticated affairs which included original scripts (written and directed by us), costumes (items found in closets), and elaborate props (the piano stool as a dining table, a jump rope as a microphone). Popular songs of the day were usually included, a cappello. Our audience was always appreciative, and left us feeling remarkably talented.
And just a note on this room, that I realize only as I write this: this was a room filled with finer things, items my grandmother held in esteem. And yet we were never made to feel that we could not be in there. We sought out the room for our games and fun. To this day, when we set the ‘young people’s table’ for our big get-togethers, that table is set in The Long Room, on its deep, wool oriental rug. That’s just how it was. So consider Grandmother Thomas’ example when you get the impulse to say that a certain room is off-limits to children. Consider what you may be denying them, and yourself.
With the next installment we’ll finish up this largest room in the house, and I’ll share with you my inspiration for freshening the space.
Thanks for reading,
Virginia